Email comments on a dream about transition and acceptance
Excerpt from original email:
The strongest feelings during the dream were ones of
opposition and acceptance all at once, and the warmth and close
feelings toward my bride. She seemed to exist in an emotional sense,
though I can't recall any of her features.
I'm open to other interpretations as well, in case anyone thinks of any.
Hi [correspondent]
As I re-read your account this afternoon a couple of things popped up...
There is an obvious male-female dynamic... and I recalled what are
often called 'plumbing' issues that women are thought to be prone to in
some quarters... [This is all about female biology and the accompanying emotional, cultural, and symbolic associations.]
I see you accepting your feminine energies pragmatically, even
though you may feel at some levels that this is not really necessary,
or need not apply to you...
Your attraction to being with the 'bride' speaks volumes, and your
repeated willingness to accept what you don't particularly want - even
going on record as not preferring it, thank you very much - also speaks
volumes about acceptance and allowance that is very instructive...
[When
we can accept that we have intentionally and lovingly created an event,
even though we personally detest it and all it's implications in this
particular now, when we accept that we have created something, we
automatically move to a perspective that allows us to see a slightly
bigger picture on things - including whatever the issue was that
triggered our getting to this lovely state...]
How wonderful to see that you are willing to overlook even what
might once have been seen as a 'criminal trespass', in support of
allowing a balanced and harmonious dwelling for the much anticipated
union of you and your bride... Lovely.
Kris has said that we create an arena for our explorations in this
physical dimension by a careful and complex interplay of opposing and
allowing energies. Thus accepting that we have created what we don't
want, on the one hand, and also accepting the fact that we oppose our
own comfort and complacency, is perfectly natural to the processes we
have engaged in this dimension.
The Shift seems to be about the re-emergence of the feminine
energetically and we males may have our work cut out for us, so to
speak... So well done!
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